Did You Hear?! Girls Guide To Move On.


Yes, I heard you saying I can’t forget him, he was everything, he’s everything to me, I love him and I won’t ever stop loving him. How can I forget the one I love?! Even if he did hurt me now, can I ever do that? I used to live for him and I’ll keep living for him and his memory until he comes back……….. blah blah blah.

In case you didn’t hear let me tell you what’s going on and what’s new. All that you just said is good and nice and I heard before. No, not just that I also did say that before but what’s new is that he’s gone and never coming back So let me tell you something, it’s time to move on and don’t say a thing I already know what you’ll say, how am I supposed to do that when I still love him?! Don’t worry dear you’ll and if you can’t do that alone let me help you.

These things might not give you the 10/10 result you want, but trying them ll get you half way:

a. If you don’t have a job already “which suck”, look for a simple easy job or a job in something you really like, even if you are gonna tell me I don’t need the money I’ll tell you, you still need the change work provide.

b. “Which most of you might prefer” is learning something new for example, music, a sport, cooking, joining “something” club, anything that needs learning and sharing ll make a change, so if you are a full time student or already have a job this choice might be perfect.

c. Traveling for a while and/or changing you job and life routine and safety zone is like magic which ll do you a great job for the moving on plan.

d. Once you embraces the moving on idea, don’t tell me you still have anything that might remind you of him, that key ring or holder or chain “whatever you call it”, that necklace, and that book, is the secret weapon of his memory to control you, so if “and I hope not” still have any gifts or stuff that reminds you of him, box them and its time for some charity.

e. Meeting new people ll help you moving on better than any of what I said “I know that you re thinking I’m crazy but I’m just being honest with you”, so go out and meet some people and I’m not telling you to go look for a new “might be too soon for you” relationship, I’m just saying simply go out, have fun, and leave the drama home.

f. Some people “while moving on” never talk ’bout what happened, its a common thing between a lot of girls “I don’t mean it’s bad” and it’s not good if you ignored your pain ’cause it ll just keep hurting you more, so find someone OR something to get your pain out and for good.

I can go on talking for weeks but that’s enough for now, if you want more OR have a problem OR need some help, just let me know :)

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For The One Who Broke Her Heart


I felt sorry for myself for so long, not just that but I blamed myself that he hurt me, I blamed myself ’cause he broke my heart, and now I can’t believe I’ve done that to myself over him. I won’t tell my story this time ’cause it’s so familiar. I won’t tell my story this time ’cause memories are already racing throw your mind putting you there where you once was. I won’t tell the story that only our lonely nights know ’bout. Many reasons and one pain, love is the narrator and the designer, and we … we just play the game and eye blinded too, and for the viewers, they watch from a far far far away land, so they hardly do a change in the story in time. Listen, I can’t tell you that you are doing wrong, a really big mistake, and her heart that you broke now, will be yours one day later, ’cause if you think you are smart enough to break a heart then you already know that. What you don’t know and won’t know before too late, is that that girl you destroyed today, will get stronger and will wait for you to fall and come back running to her to tell you “now tell me, how bad it hurt?!” with a wide smile. “What you take today, will be taken tomorrow” Next time you break a girl’s heart imagine her smiling while you cry just like now………

Facts ‘Bout Love, Real Love.


No.1

Love makes you strong, real love really makes you strong. If you’re getting weaker then re-think ’cause something must be wrong.

No.2

Love hurt, real love really hurt. So if you are getting hurt easily and you are missing something inside it’s real love you are going throw.

No.3

Real love needs responsibility, you’ve to look at everything differently to make it work.

No.4

Real love shows who you really are, you’ve to be yourself, your real you. If you can’t be then maybe its not real love or you’ve missed the talking process in your relationship.

No.5

Real love is clear without any secrets, ’cause secrets kill love and the more you keep secrets the more the knife break into your love.

No.6

Real love is SIMPLE, and the difficulty here is keeping it simple and you do that with following your feeling, your heart, don’t panic and don’t be scared, you’re doing the right for you if you’re doing what you really feel.

No.7

Real love is learning, you learn it from math ’cause its infinite, you learn it from science ’cause it’s continuing, you learn it from everything that’s why talking is important ’cause the most you learn love from is the one you love.

Tell me what you think (hopefully you ll do that :)